Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco Bay

What Should You Bring to an Ash Scattering Charter?

If youโ€™re preparing for an ash scattering at sea, itโ€™s completely normal to wonder what youโ€™ll need to bring. Most families are pleasantly surprised by how simple it can be.

With just a few essentials and a couple of thoughtful additions, youโ€™ll be well prepared.

If you havenโ€™t already booked, you can review your options here:
https://ashesonthebay.com/


The Essentials

There are really only two things you must bring:

  • The ashes (in a suitable container)
  • The required permit

In California, a permit is required to scatter ashes at sea. Families can apply directly using the forms available here:
https://ashesonthebay.com/forms/

Many families choose to handle this themselves to keep costs down, though weโ€™re always able to assist if needed.


Choosing the Right Container

Ashes can be brought in a traditional urn, but many families opt for a scattering urn or biodegradable container. These are designed to make the process smoother and more comfortable.

If youโ€™re unsure what to use, weโ€™re happy to offer guidance ahead of time.


Optional Items That Add Meaning

While not necessary, some items can help personalize the experience:

  • Loose flowers or petals
  • A printed reading or note
  • A photograph
  • A small keepsake

These simple additions often help families feel more connected to the moment.


Dressing for the Conditions

San Francisco Bay weather can vary, even on the same day. Itโ€™s best to come prepared with:

  • Layers or a light jacket
  • Sunglasses
  • Sunscreen

Comfort goes a long way toward helping you stay present during the experience.


Music and Personal Touches

If youโ€™d like to include music, a phone or small speaker is all you need. Some families prepare a single meaningful song, while others create a short playlist.

When in Doubt, Keep It Simple

Weโ€™re happy to help make sure everything feels clear and easy before your charter.